It's not often that you get mails like this
in your inbox and as it happened I had just watched the episode
of HIMYM where Ted uses a service "Love Solutions" to search
his soulmate. Yes, SOULMATE
For a word whose quick search in Google fetches about 5,42,000
results, it hardly needs an introduction. However for records
Soul mate : a person who strongly resembles another in attitudes
or beliefs -- Merriam Websters
Soulmate is a term sometimes used to designate someone with
whom one has a feeling of deep and natural affinity, friendship, love,
intimacy, sexuality, and/or compatibility -- Wikipedia
My first references to this word probably go back to some novel
by Paulo Cohelo I read in my early twenties and like most I too
was fascinated(to say the least) by the idea of having a soulmate
somewhere out there who would be all that I could ask for or more.
The more I thought about it then, the more rosy it seemed and the
more rosy it seemed the more I thought\fantasized about it.
People's perceptions about the word SoulMate are as varied as
people themselves. While someone may see soulmates as people
who are made for each other, someone sees soulmates as soul
companions who have spent previous lifetimes together and if you
thought that's all there is check out Soul Sister/Brother,
Karmic Soulmates, Twin Soulmates and more....
The legend has it that this concept/theory of soulmates dates back
to Plato's symposium in which he wrote a mythical story describing
a world where there were men, women and people who were both
men and women (Androgynous), not only this the people then had
four hands, four feet and two faces. Those mighty humans once
attacked Gods and while discussing how to retaliate without loosing
out on the worship offered by the humans Zeus came up with an idea.
He suggested cutting all human beings in half as it would weaken
them and double the number of people making offerings to the Gods.
Thus the humans were split into halves and are ever since seeking
their other halves(twin flame).
Split into halves or not many people were, are and will be on
the search for their soul mates or twin flames
but
Do you believe in soulmates ? Have you found your soulmate?
or you are looking/waiting for your soulmate ?
Id finish this post here, leaving on this note and would be back
with more soon..
Trivia:
1) While writing this I am constantly reminded of a romantic film titled
"Serendipity" which is based on the same premise.
2) It is probably the most time consuming post I've ever written
3) Due to enormous content I intend to split this into multiple posts
Links:
1) http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Soulmate
2) http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Symposium_(Plato)
Enjoy this karoake of the song soulmate
3 comments:
its important how u define soulmates... if it is "similar in attitude"... my experience is that such ppl actually fight a lot.. :)..
as in should the soulmates be similar or complimentary.
Totally opposite in attitude, but still respecting the others attitude?
and objectively speaking even if there is such as a thing as soulmate (which is predetermined)..then unless you have a helping agent (serendipity).. what are the odds one can find that one out of the millions?
I believe in soul mates. I think I even found mine. But that's not enough...There are many more questions that I am baffled with.
I think I found my soul mate, but does he thinks he found his in me? Is marriage the next logical step after finding the soul mate? Can we always marry our soul mates? What about issues like, age, looks, family background, language and culture...?
So will I wait for another soul mate, I think yes, coz I believe there would be some who is exactly the same as you are, thinks exactly the same way about you as what you think about him at exactly the same time...That would be my soul mate.
And oh @kaa
You are right, we do fight a lot... :D and that's what I love about him...but he doesn't know he is my soul mate. And u r so right about a helping agent...
Off late I don't think too much about soulmates(maybe I've become practical or realistic I donno) but this is something I feel
@kaa: I feel soulmates doesn't necessarily mean people with same attitudes. I feel soulmates could be people who are somehow connected on a more deeper/spiritual level and their is this spark which they feel between them even if they are not physically around. Also soulmate could be more of complimentary so that they become whole in totality. I absolutely agree on the helping agent(How else can I justify being single :D ?)
@sanjukta: Its sad but true that it ain't necessary that two people find their soulmates in each other, it could be one sided as well. Hmm marriage is a personal preference.
Well I guess once you realize someone is your soulmate(and the other person does the same) I doubt you'll think too much about things like age,culture etc
Hope I made some sense and not sounded like SRK in some Karan Johar movie :)
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